Sunday, May 25, 2008

Philosphy That'll Change Your Life

Wrong. Is not an opinion, answer or view.

Is someone who refuses to accept help when he or she needs it.

Sometime in your life someone may reach out to you and offer help, with a sincere aim to make a positive impact in your life. Do yourself a favor.

1) Don't push them away. In this day and age, we keep a lot of distance between each other. When someone takes the courage to break that distance and reach out to you, hear them out. You owe them the right to have your attention.

If you do push them away, you risk permanently erecting a barrier with them, jeopardizing that relationship. They will numb themselves from you and your life, which means stop caring. You will be reduced to "Facebook friend" status.

2) Their advice may not always be right. They themselves may be misguided. Problem with people is, when they get into a debate/argument, they focus on their side of the story and mentally categorize the other guy's view as INCORRECT.

Isn't it possible that the guy giving you advice isn't thinking properly? Wait. Isn't it possible YOU'RE not thinking properly? Both are possible. The only way to find out is to give others a chance.

The following phrases mean you don't care for finding out what is the right view: whatever, shut-up, mind your business, this is MY problem...

Don't insult people when they care.

XD.

-Mack

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